2/9/12 @ 7:56pm
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All the bogus: oh it can be confusing for the new people, it costs the model money, or it detracts from the flow of the conversation crap is just that: crap.
if there wasn't this overriding need to know every finite detail about everybody else's business...
To quote do_ride: It is the act of (trying to foist some view of what makes normal chat) forcing your way on the rest of us that is bullying. Whether via passive aggressive behavior or overt act.
I dont much care if people whisper, I dont need to know and dont care to know their business but have always felt whispers are quite useful for serious users to cut through the bs and communicate intention with the model. Conversations in most rooms are all over the board with models answering questions well after they were posed, while 30 lines or more of "show me" text and a dozen more each on a different subject have gone skipping by. To 'argue' that these 'conversations' are any more or less confusing or change the models cash flow (how the heck would you know?) because 'you' perceive there are minimal or no whisperers is preposterous. Quote
Reality is anything that needs to be said in private to a performer can be taken private (that is the whole point of the site) or an email can be sent, all other forms of open room chat in a public chat room is not private and we see half the conversation anyway when the performer replies and is easy to figure out what is said by the other person.
As I said above the site was more fun before without whisper and the argument about not wanting to talk to other "dudes" is simple to cure, just don't talk to them and talk to the performer if you feel that way. The thing that makes the site fun is all the people in the room not just the performers, some rooms are a lot of fun because of the customers in them and many performers get attention that they may not have because others see it is a fun room and they hang about and get to like the performer and see why the room is fun and people stay there. This is old style flirt4free at its best when it worked that way. Whisper hides all this and makes the models look like they are talking to themselves to new people that visit the site. Anyway lets see how it goes, I will miss the whispser too but I would rather have the fun rooms back and i'm sure many people agree that knew the site in its old format.
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2/9/12 @ 8:06pm
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I have to Agree.
Whisper Fuction has been abused , Nothing as bad as seeing those one sided conversations in a room and typically they do not end in a pvt or tips for the model ( on my experience)
Well Done Flirt !!
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Reason I was for the whisper function is because some people just don't like confrontations. I seriously doubt most people were abusing the function. Quote
I hear ya, man. Quote
2/9/12 @ 9:13pm
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All systems tend toward equilibrium. Equilibriums are generally characterized by the assumption of some state from a mutually exclusive set of states.
Many observers are of the opinion that systems reaching this point in their evolution are less interesting than the systems still on their way to some final state. They enjoy the diversity, conflict, uncertainty of an unstable mixture.
If you find yourself enjoying such a transient system, you are a transient surfer, recognize it and savor it.
If the system has reached its final destination, then be grateful for your enjoyment and go find another. If you can prolong the enjoyment by deliberate interaction then by all means make your attempt. But you should expect equilibrium in all but the most interesting systems. So do not be too disappointed when it finally arrives.
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I think that was the only benefit of having the whisper option: not getting into confrontations with macho dudes or lezs. Quote
2/9/12 @ 10:23pm
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All the bogus: oh it can be confusing for the new people, it costs the model money, or it detracts from the flow of the conversation crap is just that: crap.
lol this all seems crystal clear to me. But the reality is that half of humanity has one gene and the other half has the other. So two mutually exclusive views of reality exist.
Once the business side of things makes up its mind, the debate is done. The metastable state goes selected and that's all she wrote.
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2/9/12 @ 10:25pm
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2/9/12 @ 11:25pm
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lol it got his attention. Two threads closed. This one getting lots of attention.
I've noticed that when one group wants to force its way on another group, it only gets more determined when it perceives that the other group is a big 'un.
At work. Politics.
Ain't people a hoot?
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2/9/12 @ 11:46pm
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Seems like a great input to repeat again.
If he goes, wow, how much more fun and like the good old days it will be. Great plan. Quote
2/10/12 @ 12:03am
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... and again ... Quote
2/10/12 @ 12:05am
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Location: hain't Pochipsie son
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Big mistake! HUGE mistake!
lol similar ideas:
1) Indian burial ground? No problem! Lay the foundation right there.
2) Trump 2012
3) We'll cool the core with gasoline. High octane.
4) Let's introduce Mr Lickins to K1ller. They'll make great lil' playmates.
5) Damn it's cold down here in the hold Pilgrim, let's make a fire.
6) I'd like a Pabst to go with my black forest cheesecake.
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