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Male Performer Chat: Gay or Bi? How bi?
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freneticallycalm
10/20/17 @ 4:28am
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Location: California, USA
Posts: 63
From my general conversations, it seems the vast majority of guys on the site of bisexual ... both performers and customers. I don't chat too much on the girls side. I assume that's a bunch of heteros but I might be wrong.
Who here is bi or just gay?
If you're bi, how are you bi?
For example, I'm bi-sexual but hetero-romantic. But I am pretty God Damn bi-sexual. I'm versatile and generally love big dicks, big loads, bubble butts and penetrations.
Get as specific and dirty as you want. No reason to be shy since this is all anonymous. Quote
Who here is bi or just gay?
If you're bi, how are you bi?
For example, I'm bi-sexual but hetero-romantic. But I am pretty God Damn bi-sexual. I'm versatile and generally love big dicks, big loads, bubble butts and penetrations.
Get as specific and dirty as you want. No reason to be shy since this is all anonymous. Quote
From my general conversations, it seems the vast majority of guys on the site of bisexual ... both performers and customers. I don't chat too much on the girls side. I assume that's a bunch of heteros but I might be wrong.
Who here is bi or just gay?
If you're bi, how are you bi?
For example, I'm bi-sexual but hetero-romantic. But I am pretty God Damn bi-sexual. I'm versatile and generally love big dicks, big loads, bubble butts and penetrations.
Get as specific and dirty as you want. No reason to be shy since this is all anonymous.
I believe we are all bisexual, our sexuality just derived from previous life experience and the environment we were raised. I get attracted to older guys usually, physical aspect, cock size and ass magic not relevant to me. Very attracted by intelligence and humor. Quote
Who here is bi or just gay?
If you're bi, how are you bi?
For example, I'm bi-sexual but hetero-romantic. But I am pretty God Damn bi-sexual. I'm versatile and generally love big dicks, big loads, bubble butts and penetrations.
Get as specific and dirty as you want. No reason to be shy since this is all anonymous.
I believe we are all bisexual, our sexuality just derived from previous life experience and the environment we were raised. I get attracted to older guys usually, physical aspect, cock size and ass magic not relevant to me. Very attracted by intelligence and humor. Quote
What they say they are and what reality is are two different things, not that it matters. As I told someone earlier, you enter the site with the understanding that you're participating in a separate reality...fantasy really. If a guy can convincingly pull off being attracted to men, why should I care if he's straight off cam? 
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This is a constant question I find myself being asked whenever I enter a new room for the first time and I'm not sure it's the right one for an ice breaker.
First off, I'm pretty sure a large percentage of performers here are straight, through and through. They are just told to say they're bisexual to users because maybe it's just more appealing to them or it increases the chance of making credits/privates versus admitting they are straight. To be quite honest, I would prefer if performers were just honest with me and admit they were in this "gay for pay" business.
Now that doesn't mean there aren't any performers who are indeed gay and/or bisexual, just the feeling that most are straight. We also have to keep in mind that good portion of performers here are in parts of the world where LGBT groups are still, unfortunately, looked down upon and don't have the same rights/acceptance as they do in North America, making it harder to be open if they aren't straight.
Now I'm someone who can identify myself as gay because I know what I like. For some, MAYBE identifying themselves as bisexual is easier because it's seen as "less of a blow" than admitiing they're gay. I believe everyone deals with being out of the closet in their own way but by definition, bisexual means attracted to both sexes. There isn't (or rather shouldn't) be a level of preferring one over the other more. Let's face it, if it indeed come down to that, dick would always win. Now I do believe in being bi-curious, which is different and what seems to be the more appropriate term for the topic at hand.
As far as the girls side on this site, I mean I jump over there whenever I don't see any of my favorites online. I can appreciate a beautiful woman but I know I'm not sexually attracted to her. Most times I'm there looking for couples (for the guy) and oddly enough, they will be okay and open to give me some teases/shows but I always take more caution on there because I want the guy to be comfortable with performing for a male user. Quote
First off, I'm pretty sure a large percentage of performers here are straight, through and through. They are just told to say they're bisexual to users because maybe it's just more appealing to them or it increases the chance of making credits/privates versus admitting they are straight. To be quite honest, I would prefer if performers were just honest with me and admit they were in this "gay for pay" business.
Now that doesn't mean there aren't any performers who are indeed gay and/or bisexual, just the feeling that most are straight. We also have to keep in mind that good portion of performers here are in parts of the world where LGBT groups are still, unfortunately, looked down upon and don't have the same rights/acceptance as they do in North America, making it harder to be open if they aren't straight.
Now I'm someone who can identify myself as gay because I know what I like. For some, MAYBE identifying themselves as bisexual is easier because it's seen as "less of a blow" than admitiing they're gay. I believe everyone deals with being out of the closet in their own way but by definition, bisexual means attracted to both sexes. There isn't (or rather shouldn't) be a level of preferring one over the other more. Let's face it, if it indeed come down to that, dick would always win. Now I do believe in being bi-curious, which is different and what seems to be the more appropriate term for the topic at hand.
As far as the girls side on this site, I mean I jump over there whenever I don't see any of my favorites online. I can appreciate a beautiful woman but I know I'm not sexually attracted to her. Most times I'm there looking for couples (for the guy) and oddly enough, they will be okay and open to give me some teases/shows but I always take more caution on there because I want the guy to be comfortable with performing for a male user. Quote
Sexually, I am almost completely gay. But I enjoy the company of women.
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I am gay, so fabulous gay, awesomely gay 
I am mostly of the time very very sexual but sometimes i feel asexual, i am so rare. I love women but as friends. Quote
I am mostly of the time very very sexual but sometimes i feel asexual, i am so rare. I love women but as friends. Quote
Created by:
freneticallycalm
10/21/17 @ 4:40am
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Location: California, USA
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As far as the girls side on this site, most times I'm there looking for couples (for the guy) and oddly enough, they will be okay and open to give me some teases/shows but I always take more caution on there because I want the guy to be comfortable with performing for a male user.
I do this too. Most of the guys there are bisexual, or say they are. They love it when there's a male who's into them. On a sex site, most people are pretty damn open-minded to kinks.
But yeah, I love seeing a guy's ass when he's fucking a girl missionary or in a modified doggystyle when he's standing up.
... honestly, they should move couples over to the gay side. They might do better.
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As far as the girls side on this site, most times I'm there looking for couples (for the guy) and oddly enough, they will be okay and open to give me some teases/shows but I always take more caution on there because I want the guy to be comfortable with performing for a male user.
I do this too. Most of the guys there are bisexual, or say they are. They love it when there's a male who's into them. On a sex site, most people are pretty damn open-minded to kinks.
But yeah, I love seeing a guy's ass when he's fucking a girl missionary or in a modified doggystyle when he's standing up.
... honestly, they should move couples over to the gay side. They might do better.
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I do this too. Most of the guys there are bisexual, or say they are. They love it when there's a male who's into them. On a sex site, most people are pretty damn open-minded to kinks.
But yeah, I love seeing a guy's ass when he's fucking a girl missionary or in a modified doggystyle when he's standing up.
... honestly, they should move couples over to the gay side. They might do better.
I've seen some of those guys from couple rooms riding solo on the Guy Side here. Not sure if they do better, worse or the same though but I think they appreciate any visitors/credits at the end of the day.
An overall couples section would help a lot actually instead of scrolling for around for quick fixes.
And yes, they are open minded indeed which I appreciate although there have been times when I'll apparently get in the way of users wanting to see the girl. They'll complain as to why the guy is getting to much screen time/attention but hey we all have different tastes and so long as the couple are okay with it, so am I.
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freneticallycalm
10/21/17 @ 6:59pm
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Location: California, USA
Posts: 63
I've seen some of those guys from couple rooms riding solo on the Guy Side here. Not sure if they do better, worse or the same though but I think they appreciate any visitors/credits at the end of the day.
An overall couples section would help a lot actually instead of scrolling for around for quick fixes.
And yes, they are open minded indeed which I appreciate although there have been times when I'll apparently get in the way of users wanting to see the girl. They'll complain as to why the guy is getting to much screen time/attention but hey we all have different tastes and so long as the couple are okay with it, so am I.
I've been wanting a couples/groups section FOREVER!!!
Also, if you're the one dropping the credits that's what the performers respond to.
They don't respond to some grey or 2 digit whining that they aren't getting the free show of their choice. Maybe they should learn.
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From my general conversations, it seems the vast majority of guys on the site of bisexual ... both performers and customers. I don't chat too much on the girls side. I assume that's a bunch of heteros but I might be wrong.
Who here is bi or just gay?
If you're bi, how are you bi?
For example, I'm bi-sexual but hetero-romantic. But I am pretty God Damn bi-sexual. I'm versatile and generally love big dicks, big loads, bubble butts and penetrations.
Get as specific and dirty as you want. No reason to be shy since this is all anonymous.
i am just friends with benefits but only with guys
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Who here is bi or just gay?
If you're bi, how are you bi?
For example, I'm bi-sexual but hetero-romantic. But I am pretty God Damn bi-sexual. I'm versatile and generally love big dicks, big loads, bubble butts and penetrations.
Get as specific and dirty as you want. No reason to be shy since this is all anonymous.
i am just friends with benefits but only with guys
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louisphillippe
10/21/17 @ 8:56pm
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Just my 
in the subject:according to the Kinsley Institute of Sexual Behavior and
related studies as well as several other countries( Sweden,France,Denmark,Italy,
Canada etc..etc..)similar studies show the break down of sexual preferences
is like this for male and females:
BISEXUALS:1% of the worlds population.
GAY:10 > 12%
STRAIGHT:86.99%
ASEXUAL:0.100
It seems like all the bisexuals in planet Earth are congregated here in F4F!!!
because a great majority say to be bisexual!!
... Whatever they claim to be lets remember this is a site for FANTASY
ONLY and anything said here must be taken with a grain of salt...
Like I said : my
and very personal opinion.. 
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Created by:
freneticallycalm
10/22/17 @ 11:45pm
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Location: California, USA
Posts: 63
Just my in the subject:according to the Kinsley Institute of Sexual Behavior and
related studies as well as several other countries( Sweden,France,Denmark,Italy,
Canada etc..etc..)similar studies show the break down of sexual preferences
is like this for male and females:
BISEXUALS:1% of the worlds population.
GAY:10 > 12%
STRAIGHT:86.99%
ASEXUAL:0.100
It seems like all the bisexuals in planet Earthare congregated here in F4F!!!
because a greatmajority say to be bisexual!!
... Whatever they claim to be lets remember this is a site for FANTASY
ONLY and anything said here must be taken with a grain of salt...
Like I said : my
and very personal opinion.. I would have to see your data.
In countries that don't have these weird sexual hang ups like Venezuela, 85% of the population has said they've had sex with both sexes.
Also ... I'd like to point out that being transgendered is NOT a sexual orientation whatsoever. Any study that includes that should have the researchers burned at the stake ... or at least be required to take a lesson on categorical association.
The problem has to do with identity and self-reporting. A person who doesn't have the advantage of multiple words: bisexual, bi-romantic, heterosexual, hetero-romantic, asexual, pansexual, exclusively zoophilic, etc. may not be able to answer the question properly.
People also do not understand scientific categories and how they differ from social categories. I may want to identify socially as straight but my desires might be gay and my actions might be bisexual. Those people are called Republicans.
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Caitlin Jenner identifies as Republican. Said it in an interview.
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10/23/17 @ 10:10am
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Location: NY
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Just my in the subject:according to the Kinsley Institute of Sexual Behavior and
related studies as well as several other countries( Sweden,France,Denmark,Italy,
Canada etc..etc..)similar studies show the break down of sexual preferences
is like this for male and females:
BISEXUALS:1% of the worlds population.
GAY:10 > 12%
STRAIGHT:86.99%
ASEXUAL:0.100
It seems like all the bisexuals in planet Earthare congregated here in F4F!!!
because a greatmajority say to be bisexual!!
... Whatever they claim to be lets remember this is a site for FANTASY
ONLY and anything said here must be taken with a grain of salt...
Like I said : my
and very personal opinion.. I've seen these same statistics as well for the U.S. population, not worldwide. Seems right and could probably be higher depending on how honest folks are with their sexual orientation but that 1% is certainly feels off even for this site where everyone is apparently bisexual.
Caitlin Jenner identifies as Republican. Said it in an interview.
Caitlyn only cares about Caitlyn and isn't for the LGBT community.
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Agreed, Numbers!
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Created by:
freneticallycalm
10/24/17 @ 9:33am
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Location: California, USA
Posts: 63
Thank you, FC!! The sociologist in me just has to zip it sometimes!!
I'm glad my extroverted sociologist can speak for your introverted sociologist! LOL
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The sociologist in me just has to zip it sometimes!! I'm glad my extroverted sociologist can speak for your introverted sociologist! LOL
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Does its really matter, bi , gay or str8 are u ? Come on, this site not for meetings, u can just find good friend for urself here. Or get a lot of fun with guys in this site!
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Does its really matter, bi , gay or str8 are u ? Come on, this site not for meetings, u can just find good friend for urself here. Or get a lot of fun with guys in this site!
I don’t think it matters, but I do find it unappealing when I guy declares he’s straight and refuses or rebuffs any suggestion or fantasy. There is a guy who is pretty successful on here that is like that, and I don’t much like going to his room anymore because he’s like that. His annoyance (read: homophobia) with anything resembling gay fantasy annoys me. He gets really agitated, but you really can’t indulge me for 5 minutes?? You’re getting paid!!
Super friendly guy, though. Quote
I don’t think it matters, but I do find it unappealing when I guy declares he’s straight and refuses or rebuffs any suggestion or fantasy. There is a guy who is pretty successful on here that is like that, and I don’t much like going to his room anymore because he’s like that. His annoyance (read: homophobia) with anything resembling gay fantasy annoys me. He gets really agitated, but you really can’t indulge me for 5 minutes?? You’re getting paid!!
Super friendly guy, though. Quote
Does its really matter, bi , gay or str8 are u ? Come on, this site not for meetings, u can just find good friend for urself here. Or get a lot of fun with guys in this site!
I don't think anyone is questioning whether it matters what a perform's actual sexual orientation is. The initial question here was "Who here is gay? Who here is bi?" which was followed by (the real question) "How 'bisexual' are you?"
We all come here for different reasons but do build some sort of online relationship with our favorites overtime. Whether that is through friendly conversations and/or sexual fun.
Now it's up to the user themselves to decide if they want to believe whatever a performer tells them about their orientation or not but I don't think it's an entire deal breaker.
I don’t think it matters, but I do find it unappealing when I guy declares he’s straight and refuses or rebuffs any suggestion or fantasy. There is a guy who is pretty successful on here that is like that, and I don’t much like going to his room anymore because he’s like that. His annoyance (read: homophobia) with anything resembling gay fantasy annoys me. He gets really agitated, but you really can’t indulge me for 5 minutes?? You’re getting paid!!
Super friendly guy, though
I've never experienced this but I do recall going to a guys couple room last year and wanting to see them make out. We went to private but they were clearly straight (despite saying they were bi) since they refused to kiss, stroke each other or have any real action with each other. Show was ended immediately.
Again, I'd prefer if they were just honest with me instead of giving off this empty handed gesture. I mean, I'd be down for naked wrestling if they didn't want to be sexual active.
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I don't think anyone is questioning whether it matters what a perform's actual sexual orientation is. The initial question here was "Who here is gay? Who here is bi?" which was followed by (the real question) "How 'bisexual' are you?"
We all come here for different reasons but do build some sort of online relationship with our favorites overtime. Whether that is through friendly conversations and/or sexual fun.
Now it's up to the user themselves to decide if they want to believe whatever a performer tells them about their orientation or not but I don't think it's an entire deal breaker.
I don’t think it matters, but I do find it unappealing when I guy declares he’s straight and refuses or rebuffs any suggestion or fantasy. There is a guy who is pretty successful on here that is like that, and I don’t much like going to his room anymore because he’s like that. His annoyance (read: homophobia) with anything resembling gay fantasy annoys me. He gets really agitated, but you really can’t indulge me for 5 minutes?? You’re getting paid!!
Super friendly guy, though
I've never experienced this but I do recall going to a guys couple room last year and wanting to see them make out. We went to private but they were clearly straight (despite saying they were bi) since they refused to kiss, stroke each other or have any real action with each other. Show was ended immediately.
Again, I'd prefer if they were just honest with me instead of giving off this empty handed gesture. I mean, I'd be down for naked wrestling if they didn't want to be sexual active.
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