Howdy,
I just have to put in my two cents here. I think other members who see a rude one need to call out that rude member nicely and politely. They are ruining the good time we are having by being a dick. (no pun intended) Bullies do have to be confronted. Politely say something like..come on now(again..no pun here), let's tone it down, we are all here to have a nice time.
Here we see the unfortunate ability for people with low self-esteem and pent up aggressive frustration to be abusive and remain anonymous. They are most likely the ones that are abused physically/verbally elsewhere so they take it out on people in vulnerable positions.
Call them out nicely...give them a sideways compliment to boost their low self-esteem like "you're a real horny dude tonight, your gigantic dick must be busting your pants"....and try to move on and include them, maybe ask them about themselves. Then if that doesn't work, well ADMIN team, you have to excuse the model for using the "ban" and not penalize them if all else fails. It's like a time out for the youngsters. Ostracism if powerful and humiliating.
OH! and if there is a negative review from that abusive member under any profile name/nickname that they use, then the record of the ban should be noted with the negative review. F4F admin should have the technological ability to follow and trace nicknames to the account holder. That should level the playing field and make things fair for mistreated models.
The models, although they are mostly thousands of miles away and physically untouchable, are still psychologically in a vulnerable position. If we want to keep enjoying their company, we should protect their sensibilities as well.
Yes, yes, yes...there are not so nice models also. I know, but save that thought for later. Luckily, I haven't encountered it.
Train_Rex
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