7/1/16 @ 6:17pm
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Having said that I have to say that a few performers really stand out from the crowd. Not going to mention who they are, but if you find them you will know what I mean.
It is extremely hard for most performers to make a go of it on the site, but the key can be listening to any suggestions that members might mention.
The sign of a good chat room is not merely the performer, but also the amazing members who are drawn to the room. The site is fully of members who really are cool to hang out with, and in many ways far reaching connections are made which sure adds more spice to the site.
Would be interesting to hear the thoughts of both performers and members on this topic.
Thanks for taking the time to read.
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7/1/16 @ 8:37pm
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A conversationalist with good chatting skills...
Neat and well groomed...
A smile and a praise..
Good memory...
Pay attention!! (if you are typing "War
and Peace" and we don't see anything you are BORING!!ZZzzzzzzzzzzz )
A well neat clean kept room...( avoid super loud music..)
Beautiful eyes...
Sexy as hell but not trashy..
An athletic body goes a long way !!!...
If you have any doubts ask GOFISH or MYELMO...
Avoid chatting in secret with other member.Whatever they have
to say might liven up your room..
If I left anything out I'll educate all of you
later on...
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7/4/16 @ 8:53am
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(1) Don't be shy, talk to your visitors. Turn off that music for a while and just talk. It's lovely to hear a cute accent, a refreshing laugh or just someone saying my name (okay, maybe I prefer whispering here , but still the real deal).
I know, English is not everybody's first language, but you can only improve by making use of it .
(2) Encourage your visitors to talk to each other and as LP said to liven up your room by not whispering. I find a room enjoyable where everybody is interested in joining a conversation and all tease and are teased by the performer at the same time. There will always be people who won't talk at all, try to engage them and ignore them if you get nothing back.
(3) Private is were everything can happen (hopefully some magic ), so indeed, LP put "good manners" first for a good reason. Don't overdo the flirting in open chat, be yourself, indeed pay attention already before camming to have a clean environment and your hair combed. Make people feel welcome and at ease to be in your room even if they are just watching or chatting for a while. Yes, we are a big bunch, but try to remember those who come back.
(4) Don't give in to rude demands or comments. Your room, your rules, and your first rule should be to stay calm even with trolls and trouble makers. Don't react/engage with those, just silence them, most will leave unnoticed when they are ignored. If they are still trash talking after the silence period ... silence them again! If that all doesn't seem to help you can still usher them out of the room. But discreetly.
(5) As for body features, don't even think about it. We are all looking for something different and YOU might just be the right type for someone who's been looking around for some time for his (her) soulmate. Some say, we find things by waiting for them to pass by . So be patient and yourself and friendships will grow naturally. Quote