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Created by: Chuy

3/24/14 @ 9:05am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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Created by: gofish

3/24/14 @ 2:56pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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hello to every body
i see here a lot of friendships, and i m happy to see that
but- friendships are for money ? or the friendships are true, real friendships?
the models talk to members just for the money ? or the models talk nice because they like be nice , friendly, and with respect?
what happenings if a member will come here to say - "hey , i dont have money any more, i can not spend more"
the model will continue to speak to the member ? will continue to be the same nice guy and friendly ?

i think here are good models and bad models, my opinion
and of course, good members, and rude members

have a good time guys !

Generally if there is a member in your chat room who is actually willing to talk, and who is totally honest about not taking you private why the heck would you not talk to him or her. Is it not better to have a lot of people in the room who are willing to talk rather than just sit looking at the screen and hoping something will happen.
Yes I think most members realize that this is a form of employment for the model in question, but yes often a friendship can happen if both the model and viewer wish it to be so.
It is all about showing respect for both the model and the member when you really thing about it. Members will clue into bad models and avoid them, and likewise bad members will be shunned by both models and other members.
One very interesting topic for sure.

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Created by: Chuy

3/24/14 @ 3:14pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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Generally if there is a member in your chat room who is actually willing to talk, and who is totally honest about not taking you private why the heck would you not talk to him or her. Is it not better to have a lot of people in the room who are willing to talk rather than just sit looking at the screen and hoping something will happen.
Yes I think most members realize that this is a form of employment for the model in question, but yes often a friendship can happen if both the model and viewer wish it to be so.
It is all about showing respect for both the model and the member when you really thing about it. Members will clue into bad models and avoid them, and likewise bad members will be shunned by both models and other members.
One very interesting topic for sure.

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thank u for reply gofish, your words were true and you are right ...
if the member realy want a true friendship, and the model too, they can get it

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Created by: Amber Dawnn

3/24/14 @ 3:30pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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A Fuck1ng Men!!!!! We need more like this! Both models and members!

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Created by: Joey Diamond

3/24/14 @ 5:06pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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I don't see how you can be a successful model considering your fans friends for money instead of real friends. Why would I treat someone any differently if their financial situation isn't like it was when we first met? I believe this separates the good from the great, can you keep your friends around after the first couple months once everyone's had their turn? I know I wouldn't stick around if the model didn't consider me a real friend.

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3/25/14 @ 5:04pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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Created by: Paul Nice

3/27/14 @ 9:47pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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Hi guys i think what i'm here for friends and for money, but if member say me i havn't money i just talk with him about anything and we laught and tease together. And i want to say what i universal and for money and for friendship )) sorry for it =)

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Created by: Sencer

3/28/14 @ 4:15am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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Created by: toppgun

3/28/14 @ 7:51am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Well said Sencer :thumbsup

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3/28/14 @ 12:25pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Created by: brett025

3/28/14 @ 2:04pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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I agree, very well said Sencer. Even better that it comes from a performer.

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Created by: gofish

3/28/14 @ 2:36pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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Sencer my FRIEND you always provide such interesting replies to forum threads. You seem to be one heck of an intense deep thinker which seems to be one of your amazing qualities. That is so ever so cool that you actually manage to meet some of your viewers and hope you had a great time in the process. Now how is that for getting off topic :orglaugh

Keep them coming Sencer :thumbsup

Think we all enjoy reading your point of view.

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Created by: Sencer

3/30/14 @ 8:58am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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Created by: ken73

3/30/14 @ 10:57pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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I admire you Spencer. You have the courage to be honest. It is best not to forget the reason models are here. You are gracious and patient with members. It is easy to see why members would want to be your friends. As regards my own experience with some other models, I have found that when I have been unable to contribute(be it credits or $$ sent to help with rent or school), the friendship disappears. I blame myself not the model. This is not a place to visit if you are lonely and given to wishful thinking. No disrespect to anyone intended. Besides myself, that is :twocents

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Created by: Chuy

3/31/14 @ 7:29am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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I agree with you Sencer. There are too many members here who consider themselves "friends" of the models - they come into the model's room, monopolize the chat, try to run the chat room and yet they never spend a dime in the model's room. I know if I find it annoying, the models do too.

u are right gayslave, ..and we, models, do not like this,
but this is life
we need be friendly
i hope you enjoy your time gayslave, kiss and have a good day

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Created by: Sencer

4/3/14 @ 7:53am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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Ken i think friends and customers that could help a model to be a top model have very different terms for few of us..i have friends that been visit me..i have to admit only few in these 7 years that i spent here.and they never contribute at my rent or bills r stuff like these..friendships are not on money ...but these that i call friends,they never asked for anything either...respect its a 2ways road...one giving..one reciving... now if we talk about customers,its normal to expect someone to contribute as long he don`t treat you like a friend ..as long he don`t accept you in ur worst day and enjoy to chat with you even if ur mess up or if ur not in mood to stand or do anything at all..so as i said..friends,and customers has two different terms,i got both here,and i treat both different ...i know some ppl judge me because i treat ppl different,but i treat everyone as he deserve,because not everyone treat me equal...as i said.some don`t enjoy my company someday..some are always here for chat and to listen me even when i act like a pussy on menopause.

))...so i love my friends, and i always enjoy my time with them online or in real life..and i respect my customers and i treat them as good as i can...and as good as they deserve.

and btw Ken , i apreciate alot the emails and the surprise...cheers and hope u`ll find ur way back thru happines here...because everyone deserve to enjoy some quality time here...u just have to take life as it is..and when u`ll do ..good things will happen. cheers. and thanks everyone for encourage me about my posts. i tough alot of ppl hate me on forum because im always honest,but its good to know some don`t.and apreciate the quality of having the nuts to say what i feel or think.

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Created by: Rikky Summer

4/5/14 @ 4:35am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00

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this topic is very intersting but it has two sense ways...first of all i have to say during the years i spent here i got to make some real friends,i even meet few of them in person in bucharest,went out for bowling or showing them places around...never had sex with one but we made great friendships and that count alot..but the topic is pretty mssed up...i have to say lately i made a bunch of "friends" here...that were always willing to chat and we spend together more hours per day online..but the painfull truth is they weren`t really friends...most of them had always credits but they never spent in my room not even 10 credit....they spent in others room with ppl that didn`t treat them fair..so i think being a succesefull model here..and making some friends..its a big difference..anyway...im happy that i m able to make few friends..can`t say many..but enough to keep me company at any hour during my shift...but guys..i know alot ppl will judge me wrong now..but please..remember..most of us stay here most of the time for rent/college bills/highschool bills..and other stuff..none of us spent time here only for fun...i don`t say it shouldn`t be fun at all or we can`t make friends..but dear regulars..don`t forget to spend at least 10 credit per week in every fav room X_x ..or one day u might woke up and realize these fav models have gone,without any plan of coming back.

btw i didn`t replayed here to ofend anyone,i didn`t gave names or nicknames...so i hope no one gonna feel hes ass burn and start a drama around..it was just my sincere opinion..and i think many of us that have been work here long enough to see how things going think the same.....maybe im the only smart ass that always speak what he think without beeing afraid of how ppl gonna judge him..but i m sure there are many that think like me around.

I all agree dear! But you are not first who said about this important theme! Models and members not understand each other often! But all such recommendations basically remain only as the text! I do not accuse anybody! But often I see people who consider that I am obliged with them to communicate or do show! For two years of work I registered with my notes in "My Unpopular" room almost eighteen thousand users at which at the moment of arrival in a room was not less than twelve tens of credits!!!!! And I sure that this is so as I say! Whether that bad in that if I ask the person about private? Whether that bad in that if I offer chat in a pvt? I force nobody! I do not refuse to communicate further in open chat! But this is not to be pleasant to the majority of people! And why? Because at all of the members subconsciously put the stereotype that I am the web prost*tute! And the most important thing - free WebPro*! And that I owe to them!

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Created by: olddad12

4/5/14 @ 10:33am (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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well from my experience after ispent a fortune on flirt an than i went broke, i felt that i was useless to the model i adore, but for the most part he still talk to me here an on twitter, but i also know people that spent a fortune on a model an after that person was no longer on site just settle for a smiley face once in awhile

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Created by: stinks

4/8/14 @ 11:32pm (EDT) | UTC - 4:00
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i think here are good models and bad models, my opinion
and of course, good members, and rude members

have a good time guys !

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and I am one of the rude members.

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