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Male Performer Chat: What members don't want to see...
Kian Alvane
Created by: Kian Alvane

12/5/14 @ 2:58am (EST) |UTC - 5:00



I think we need to distinguish between two different issues here, "what members don't want to see" and "what should models do in a quiet room".

I would suggest that the whole "what members don't want to see" applies to when the members ARE talking to the model. If the model is not responding because he is on his phone or doing something else, then the members are going to get frustrated and leave. If they are trying to get the model's attention and the model is totally preoccupied, it becomes a huge turn-off.

On the other hand, if the room is quiet, and no one is talking despite the model's efforts at engaging members in conversation, I think it is fine for the model to be watching television, etc., provided that if someone DOES speak up, the model redirects his attention from whatever he was doing back to the member(s) and the chat.


I totally agree with this! I think you solved a debate in here with this comment :) Thanks mate :drinkup
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stinks
Created by: stinks

12/5/14 @ 11:03am (EST) |UTC - 5:00
Location: member since february 2010
Posts: 1,039




Sometime it happened someone from family to search us,right?
Or maybe just a friend who need our help.
For example i use phone for music without use my laptop for that. So sometime i need change the song,right?
Just my point :D

not see this one model doing a card trick-he look so cute when he does it

:(
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Created by: louisphillippe

12/5/14 @ 4:21pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00
Location: Momentarely in this galaxy while the mother ship r
Posts: 1,234


Louis your layers has got me to be a expert witness on rules and etiquette on the forums and Ronnie expert witness on rules and etiquette will be sir ken.





:orglaugh :orglaugh ( Louis P. wearing a black robe and white horse hair wig bangs
the gavel ) :thumbsup CASE CLOSED!!!...We all win!! :drinkup :drinkup :thumbsup :thumbsup :orglaugh
STINK gets his 4 front teeth!! :orglaugh :orglaugh (... and a partridge on a pear treeeeee.. :party )

CNN,ALJAZEERA,BBC,ABC and History Channel and other large informative news interrupt the usual programming to announce the verdict... :orglaugh :orglaugh
:drinkup :drinkup :winkwink :winkwink :party :party
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Created by: tickler_puck

12/5/14 @ 6:31pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00
Location: Baltimore, MD
Posts: 21

I recently had a duo show and in the middle the guys just stopped and requested a tip or tips to continue. Is this something new? It had never happened in any of my prior privates. Something I'm not wild about, to be honest. The privates are expensive enough. Am I wrong?
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Created by: ronnie-uk

12/5/14 @ 7:41pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00
Location: London, UK
Posts: 2,381

I recently had a duo show and in the middle the guys just stopped and requested a tip or tips to continue. Is this something new? It had never happened in any of my prior privates. Something I'm not wild about, to be honest. The privates are expensive enough. Am I wrong?


Models shouldn't ask for tips during a private show, unless it is for some really exceptional request. Members are already paying for every minute of the private show.

If you are a VIP member you can see a topic about tipping in private here:

http://www.flirt4free.com/forums/threads.php?forum_id=1&thread_id=3091&num_posts=43

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Created by: louisphillippe

12/7/14 @ 4:26pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00
Location: Momentarely in this galaxy while the mother ship r
Posts: 1,234

I recently had a duo show and in the middle the guys just stopped and requested a tip or tips to continue. Is this something new? It had never happened in any of my prior privates. Something I'm not wild about, to be honest. The privates are expensive enough. Am I wrong?



:mad Some new models that come from another cam site where they demand tokens for
anything you ask them to do, believe that can and should do the same here :evil not
taking into consideration members pay between $6 to $9 PER MINUTE :mad instead of
$2.99 per minute... :mad.... Know what a mean???;)
That makes a 20 minutes private here $120 to $180 :evil... ( I know...they don't
get that whole amount but WE do pay it.. :( ...)
:angel I'm glad I negotiated the deal before going private because the model demanded
at the end of the 15 minutes show a minimum of 500 credits tip in PREMIUM time :evil ...
....I said BRB man!..... :thumbsup
:orglaugh... He must still be waiting!! :orglaugh
:angel I have no qualms about tipping but only when I see it fit not as extortion! :thumbsup

My :twocents
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Kian Alvane
Created by: Kian Alvane

12/9/14 @ 6:46am (EST) |UTC - 5:00




:mad Some new models that come from another cam site where they demand tokens for
anything you ask them to do, believe that can and should do the same here :evil not
taking into consideration members pay between $6 to $9 PER MINUTE :mad instead of
$2.99 per minute... :mad.... Know what a mean???;)
That makes a 20 minutes private here $120 to $180 :evil... ( I know...they don't
get that whole amount but WE do pay it.. :( ...)
:angel I'm glad I negotiated the deal before going private because the model demanded
at the end of the 15 minutes show a minimum of 500 credits tip in PREMIUM time :evil ...
....I said BRB man!..... :thumbsup
:orglaugh... He must still be waiting!! :orglaugh
:angel I have no qualms about tipping but only when I see it fit not as extortion! :thumbsup

My :twocents


haha.. you should have also told him why you;re leaving :P maybe he'll never learn if nobody tells him the truth
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stinks
Created by: stinks

12/9/14 @ 1:12pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00
Location: member since february 2010
Posts: 1,039

too many CUTE Romania guys on the site! :evil :) :bowdown :drinkup
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Sencer
Created by: Sencer

12/9/14 @ 2:34pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00

too many CUTE Romania guys on the site! :evil :) :bowdown :drinkup



take ur time my friend,for each other that worth,don`t waste ur energy on negative ppl , don`t think about the time you spend doing on things it dosen`t matter,all that matter is the finish of journey ...reaching the happiness my friend.
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Created by: louisphillippe

12/10/14 @ 12:00am (EST) |UTC - 5:00
Location: Momentarely in this galaxy while the mother ship r
Posts: 1,234

too many CUTE Romanian guys on the site! :evil :) :bowdown :drinkup




:thumbsup :thumbsup Ditto!!!...(but never too many....) :orglaugh :orglaugh
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Created by: louisphillippe

12/10/14 @ 12:08am (EST) |UTC - 5:00
Location: Momentarely in this galaxy while the mother ship r
Posts: 1,234

:mad "HELLOOOOOO...I'm baaaackkk!!!..please come to my room...I'm here again....." :evil

:mad You are back???... :mad ...and you didn't have 3 minutes to send us a message
saying you would be leaving?????????????????????????!!!!!!!!!!!!! :mad
:evil Geeeeezzz......after a few privates you couldn't drop me a line or two??? :evil
:orglaugh Sweet buns....guess whom is going to be waiting until Earth becomes flat??? :orglaugh

:thumbsup Never burn all your bridges down,someday you might need to cross the same river again :winkwink
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Adonis Steel
Created by: Adonis Steel

12/19/14 @ 5:54pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00

also dislike embers who send fake tips and the member that tells the model to lie down face camera for 10 minutes and he will either tip greatly or do a long private....that annoys the hell out of me



good point :D:D:D:D:D big up for that man !!!!!
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stinks
Created by: stinks

12/20/14 @ 4:37pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00
Location: member since february 2010
Posts: 1,039




take ur time my friend,for each other that worth,don`t waste ur energy on negative ppl , don`t think about the time you spend doing on things it dosen`t matter,all that matter is the finish of journey ...reaching the happiness my friend.

life is not made by the dreams that I dream but by the choices I make

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Seth Brown
Created by: Seth Brown

12/30/14 @ 9:36am (EST) |UTC - 5:00




best reply ever on this subject..i`ve been always tried say this but you found the right words for it dude....you`ve got my vote for best reply one of the most important topics.



Sencer i think i would go full bi for you :). I liked this post.
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Created by: louisphillippe

1/7/15 @ 3:53am (EST) |UTC - 5:00
Location: Momentarely in this galaxy while the mother ship r
Posts: 1,234


:mad A young and handsome model with a badly disguised Swastika on the left
side of the upper chest and two "SS" Nazi signs above it still untouched and clearly visible.. :(
It is OK to be young,stupid,uneducated and a "rebel" but first make sure you
research what those symbols meant then and what they still mean now.... :mad
:( Hatred is not tolerable in these times and age... :evil not after half
of Europe and Allied Forces perished to give us freedom from that evil... :(

Just my sad :twocents
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stinks
Created by: stinks

1/7/15 @ 3:17pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00
Location: member since february 2010
Posts: 1,039


:mad A young and handsome model with a badly disguised Swastika on the left
side of the upper chest and two "SS" Nazi signs above it still untouched and clearly visible.. :(
It is OK to be young,stupid,uneducated and a "rebel" but first make sure you
research what those symbols meant then and what they still mean now.... :mad
:( Hatred is not tolerable in these times and age... :evil not after half
of Europe and Allied Forces perished to give us freedom from that evil... :(

Just my sad :twocents


members will not let hate be a part of this site.
:thumbsup
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zyxwv098
Created by: zyxwv098

1/7/15 @ 6:25pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00
Posts: 883

Point in fact: not knowing the background of the model, the swastika might be a Buddhist religious symbol...but with the reference to the SS symbol, I doubt it. Still, tattoos are unfortunately more or less permanent, so what one does in one's youth sticks with them...for life. We can only hope that his perspectives have moved away from those represented by those tattoos.

Back to the topic: I don't want to see models being asked to answer the same questions over and over (and over and over) again, especially when those questions are answered in their profiles...which, thanks to the new layout of the chat rooms, is easily viewed just by clicking on a tab. Really, how many times does a model need to say "I'm from X" when it says his location is "X" right there in the profile?
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Cameron Jakob
Created by: Cameron Jakob

1/8/15 @ 11:50am (EST) |UTC - 5:00

Thanks louisphillippe for starting this thread and to everyone for their input as well! As a newer model, I like hearing what makes the experience more (or less) enjoyable for the members so I can continue to improve. Now I can file some of this information away of things to avoid while on cam.

zyxwv098 thanks for reading the profiles hehe - I will always try to answer a question of a member asks, but I am sure it can get repetitive and old for returning members and those who have been in the room for awhile. I do appreciate when a fellow member will encourage others to read my profile when I get asked one of those repetitive questions.

Thanks again!
C.J.

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Created by: gayslave4u

1/8/15 @ 12:58pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00
Posts: 619



Back to the topic: I don't want to see models being asked to answer the same questions over and over (and over and over) again, especially when those questions are answered in their profiles...which, thanks to the new layout of the chat rooms, is easily viewed just by clicking on a tab. Really, how many times does a model need to say "I'm from X" when it says his location is "X" right there in the profile?

Well, as long as some models continue to list their location as, "your bedroom", "cockland", "in your dreams" or "n/a", then they will continue to be asked the same question over and over and over ad nauseam.

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zyxwv098
Created by: zyxwv098

1/8/15 @ 1:49pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00
Posts: 883


Well, as long as some models continue to list their location as, "your bedroom", "cockland", "in your dreams" or "n/a", then they will continue to be asked the same question over and over and over ad nauseam.




That is true, but it was also just an example. Other questions include:
- are you gay, straight, or bi?
- are you a top or bottom?
- how long are you?
- how old are you?
- what color are your eyes?

And of course, if these are left blank, then yes, they will be asked over and over again. But you see the main point, yes?
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