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Male Performer Chat: What members don't want to see...
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gofish
7/6/17 @ 9:41pm
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OOOoooooohhhhhh!! the god damn phones!!!!
.. it isgetting worse and worse!!!
Why the f**k would I tip a model that never looks at the camera andit is constantly fixated on a phone screen?????!!!!!!!!!!
I say "Hi!! nice to see you again..." 
Answer back: "tip bb...tip BB..." after a few minutes..
Why would I tip a person that finds more important YouTube,snap-chat,Facebook,
Instagram etc...etc...etc than his/her fans trying to engage in
conversation????
Just a noble idea....DO IT BEFORE OF AFTER!!! 
Ohhhh..yesss..."I'm so bored!! no one speak to me,that is why!!" I wonder why????.... Well...that goes for most of the models...a few actually have common sense
and class....
Am I bitching too much??? I'm sure most members feel the same way.... Just my
worth 99 cents... 
louisphillippe think you nailed it there. Though have to say not sure why some performers are buck naked and stoking their dick like they are planning to start a fire. Sort of leaves everyone speechless and heck why would one tip or take the guy private when he is giving it away for FREE.
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lol maybe
Humans really???.... I thought they werefigments of my imagination....
The models turned out to be really people
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I still think it is one of the best threads I seen on the forum and L.P. does not get mad at me for going
15 pages
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louisphillippe think you nailed it there. Though have to say not sure why some performers are buck naked and stoking their dick like they are planning to start a fire. Sort of leaves everyone speechless and heck why would one tip or take the guy private when he is giving it away for FREE.
fish as you know i do and in the right room i am not only tipper
long live show and tip
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louisphillippe
7/7/17 @ 3:03pm
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louisphillippe think you nailed it there. Though have to say not sure why some performers are buck naked and stoking their dick like they are planning to start a fire. Sort of leaves everyone speechless and heck why would one tip or take the guy private when he is giving it away for FREE.
so right!! another little problem too... thenmodels complain about not making enough tips???
I wonder why!!... well...eventually viewers will get fed up with the vibrating toys,the graffiti like tattoos and other pests
andonly good members will remain....
Just my
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I honestly think, If we as members accept that the model is here to be respected and appreciated there would never be any confusion in the rooms. We make them focus on other things when were not showing them attention or just demanding them to do things without tipping them. There're human to, so just like us (members) when were bored we find something to do. So why not let them be themselves. Think about how they feel, put yourself in there shoes. I've sat in my favorite model room for hours, tipped him, talked to him, and took him private. To me he is the most nicest model here, not to mention the sexiest. He is real and down to earth, I can relate to him. I hate to see him get frustrated with his viewers when he feels they ignore him. Because he starts doing the things that I see you post here that you hate. I think we need to try to harder to make them not get so bored. IJS
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Although there are behaviors that may annoy us, I find it difficult to complain because the models do get paid for down time. If I get annoyed, I can simply move on to another model. Unless they are fortunate to get a private session, tip or gift, these guys get zero compensation for being 'on the job' despite putting in hours of their time.
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Correction: Models do NOT get paid for down time while they are waiting and basically on-call sometimes for hours at a time.
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I find it annoying when someone else from the studio or the house walks in on a private session and talks to the model. Like the last part of Lukas Tony's private show, VOD 16099829, someone walks into the chatroom and Lukas talks to him while he is naked and just ruins the whole mood.
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louisphillippe
7/14/17 @ 2:48pm
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I find it annoying when someone else from the studio or the house walks in on a private session and talks to the model. Like the last part of Lukas Tony's private show, VOD 16099829, someone walks into the chatroom and Lukas talks to him while he is naked and just ruins the whole mood.
.... Absolutely a mood ki11er!!
Same thing when the performer is in a studio and you can hear a woman
screaming and moaning in the background... ...it might
be a fellow female performer or the model watching porn...but
models need to understand that in certain moments WE should be the only
ones and most important...
( The meatball or ham sandwich could wait until later???)
Just saying...my
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.... Absolutely a mood ki11er!! Same thing when the performer is in a studio and you can hear a woman
screaming and moaning in the background...
...it mightbe a fellow female performer or the model watching porn...but
models need to understand that in certain moments WE should be the only
ones and most important...
(
The meatball or ham sandwich could wait until later???) Just saying...my
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.... Absolutely a mood ki11er!! Same thing when the performer is in a studio and you can hear a woman
screaming and moaning in the background...
...it mightbe a fellow female performer or the model watching porn...but
models need to understand that in certain moments WE should be the only
ones and most important...
(
The meatball or ham sandwich could wait until later???) Just saying...my
THANK YOU FOR SHARING THIS!!!
As a newer model, I'm still carefully learning to navigate the preferences and what's niche vs popular. And I've TOTALLY. BEEN. THAT. GUY. Hardcore straight porn going relatively full blast. It definitely helps me, particularly while I'm still somewhat nervous and building confidence. I recognize most of my clients are gay men and are as interested in hearing that GENERALLY as most straight guys would like to hear a guy dirty talking about breeding another guy's ass, but I've also had folks tip and take me private based partly ON THAT. I assumed that meant I was attracting the right clients for who I am, since I list in my profile that I'm only heteroflexible, not even fully bi per se.
Only JUST NOW when I read your post did I remember that just because I've made some money BECAUSE of something doesn't mean I wouldn't make way more without it or by doing something else.
Those sort if free hints help a TON for a newbie like me... thanks to you and all the forum veterans for helping sheperd us into being the models you actually want to spend time with! That's invaluable!
That said... do you feel like it's more or less respectful (recognizing neither is ideal) to have the sound playing and put the phone down and pay attention to the client or to have the phone in hand so I can have an ear bud in so they don't have to see it? Or suppose I had headphones long enough... would that seem like I'm ignoring you if you went private with me and insisted you wanted to see me get off? Both seem not great to me but until I can just lose myself totally in what I'm doing, I just need the crutch. Thoughts???
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louisphillippe
7/14/17 @ 8:08pm
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THANK YOU FOR SHARING THIS!!!
As a newer model, I'm still carefully learning to navigate the preferences and what's niche vs popular. And I've TOTALLY. BEEN. THAT. GUY. Hardcore straight porn going relatively full blast. It definitely helps me, particularly while I'm still somewhat nervous and building confidence. I recognize most of my clients are gay men and are as interested in hearing that GENERALLY as most straight guys would like to hear a guy dirty talking about breeding another guy's ass, but I've also had folks tip and take me private based partly ON THAT. I assumed that meant I was attracting the right clients for who I am, since I list in my profile that I'm only heteroflexible, not even fully bi per se.
Only JUST NOW when I read your post did I remember that just because I've made some money BECAUSE of something doesn't mean I wouldn't make way more without it or by doing something else.
Those sort if free hints help a TON for a newbie like me... thanks to you and all the forum veterans for helping sheperd us into being the models you actually want to spend time with! That's invaluable!
That said... do you feel like it's more or less respectful (recognizing neither is ideal) to have the sound playing and put the phone down and pay attention to the client or to have the phone in hand so I can have an ear bud in so they don't have to see it? Or suppose I had headphones long enough... would that seem like I'm ignoring you if you went private with me and insisted you wanted to see me get off? Both seem not great to me but until I can just lose myself totally in what I'm doing, I just need the crutch. Thoughts???
Open to anyone, btw!
BTW...you haven't made any horrible mistakes but many littlelearning faux pas
since you seem genuine about learning the trade..
Perhaps having some appropriate general music in the room would
relax you and your viewers better???
Just imagine: your GF and you are having wild sex when yourealize she is polishing her nails or using her phone while you do
your best to please...
... How would you feel???I think 100% attention is a must either way...
women,men or goats!!! LMAO!!
BTW...a lot of members don't just want to see you "GET OFF" or "breed their asses"!!!,of course a lot want you to cum 5 times in 4 minutes
but
those are the weird unrealistic idiots no one wants in their room...
Some of us prefer masculine beauty,sexiness,a good conversation and
get to know each other better that the proverbial "slam,bang thank
you man!!"... ;))
Do you really think "MOST OF YOUR CLIENTS are gay men"??? Well...I have only come across REAL women visiting this sitein the last 15 years may be a few dozen times
and yes we have had a few women posting in the forum
but women in general havea different idea of what is erotic
you know what I mean??? I believe higher standards lead to higher earnings and much better clientele...
Well...thank you for listening my rants and raves and I hope youhave a very successful rewarding career here and outside in the
"REAL" world..
Anyone else has any advise for this smart young man theis trying to learn how this works????
Just my very personal sincere
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Just imagine: your GF and you are having wild sex when yourealize she is polishing her nails or using her phone while you do
your best to please...
... How would you feel???I think 100% attention is a must either way...
women,menor goats!!! LMAO!!
I never saw models who do it in paid chat.
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louisphillippe
7/15/17 @ 11:36pm
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I never saw models who do it in paid chat.
I didn't mean it LITERALLY!! of course not!!I don't think you would actually enjoy having your girlfriend
doing a crossword puzzle or falling sleep while you are having sex,
would you?????....
...the same with yourclients here.Paying attention to them is a must.
Sorry if I didn't phrase it correctly
my Englishis still a work in progress....
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louisphillippe
7/16/17 @ 12:09am
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Correction: Models do NOT get paid for down time while they are waiting and basically on-call sometimes for hours at a time.
Funny you would said that!! I don't think
anybody on Earth gets paid for doing nothing!! ( Except
politicians )...
I'm sure nowhere in their contract here they
were told they would get paid for seating around playing with
the phone or watching TV ...the key words are FLIRT 4 FREE
Flirting is the lost art of charming someone into
romance,sex,some erotic pleasures or ,of course, in this case
for money... and it should be 4 FREE!!!
Just my ....
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Funny you would said that!! I don't thinkanybody on Earth gets paid for doing nothing!!
( Exceptpoliticians
)... I'm sure nowhere in their contract here they were told they would get paid for seating around playing with
the phone or watching TV
...the key words are FLIRT 4 FREE Flirting is the lost art of charming someone intoromance,sex,some erotic pleasures or ,of course, in this case
for money...
and it should be 4 FREE!!!Just my
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I hate it when a Model REFUSES to greet a viewer or customer when they enter the chat. They just sit there, looking at the screen. Even though it is their chatroom, they refuse to acknowledge or greet the customer first.
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I hate it when a Model REFUSES to greet a viewer or customer when they enter the chat. They just sit there, looking at the screen. Even though it is their chatroom, they refuse to acknowledge or greet the customer first.
I hate it when a Model REFUSES to greet a viewer or customer when they enter the chat. They just sit there, looking at the screen. Even though it is their chatroom, they refuse to acknowledge or greet the customer first.
I defiintely agree. I think it is very rude when they ignore a customer.
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I hate it when a Model REFUSES to greet a viewer or customer when they enter the chat. They just sit there, looking at the screen. Even though it is their chatroom, they refuse to acknowledge or greet the customer first.
I defiintely agree. I think it is very rude when they ignore a customer.
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gofish
7/28/17 @ 3:55pm
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Any performer on the site who does not at least make some attempt to say HELLO to any members entering the room generally won't last long. Having said that I think it is up the viewer to make the first move and say HELLO to get the ball rolling.
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I tend to agree with Gofish on this, it is easier for the member to say hello and get things started. Many models I know have given up greeting first since it goes unanswered most of the time. If a model has a busy room or their studio makes them work multiple sites at once it would be difficult for the model to greet every single member who enters their room. We don't always know the situation the model is in, he just may not have a good command of English either. I am sure there are other situations or the model just doesn't care, in that case as Gofish says they won't last long.
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gofish
7/28/17 @ 4:33pm
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I tend to agree with Gofish on this, it is easier for the member to say hello and get things started. Many models I know have given up greeting first since it goes unanswered most of the time. If a model has a busy room or their studio makes them work multiple sites at once it would be difficult for the model to greet every single member who enters their room. We don't always know the situation the model is in, he just may not have a good command of English either. I am sure there are other situations or the model just doesn't care, in that case as Gofish says they won't last long.
I think Brett hit on part of the problem. Those performers on more than one site are in for a major burnout. The sad part is I think certain studios are trying to get as much out the model as there is always another model to take their place.
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I think Brett hit on part of the problem. Those performers on more than one site are in for a major burnout. The sad part is I think certain studios are trying to get as much out the model as there is always another model to take their place.
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