7/8/16 @ 12:00am
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Location: Spain, longing for Denmark
Posts: 2,447
I am celebrating today my 1st anniversary on Flirt!§
I thought that visiting Flirt would be a short, sweaty, hectic phase ... like most relationships, but I got captivated by this great community of members and models alike!
So this *points up and down and left and right* is the place I'll make future announcements, post random thoughts etc. that most people won't want to hear about anyway. You have been warned and can skip it in the future . If I happen to strike a string in you, share your thoughts!
I joined Flirt on July 8th 2015 and it took me about 5 days to decide for a VIP membership. The first guy who took charge of me wowed me so much that I couldn't resist making sure I'll have an archive of our privates to keep.
I find it both difficult and fascinating to find a performer who can offer something unique ... I think, every member has a couple of special someones on here, and maybe no other member can understand or see what makes him (or her) so special to you .
It is even more difficult since I haven't yet figured out what it really is I am looking for .
Stay tuned!
Yours,
Chris
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§ which happens to coincide with the birthday of a great roommate: Hari huritau, Amazing One! Thank you for your never ending efforts to make this world a better place. Quote
7/8/16 @ 12:15am
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Location: Spain, longing for Denmark
Posts: 2,447
The Oscar Ceremony thread: recyclable annually
Male side > http://www.flirt4free.com/forums/threads.php?forum_id=5&thread_id=23139&last_post=1
Female side > http://www.flirt4free.com/forums/threads.php?forum_id=4&thread_id=20333&last_post=1
The Eurovision thread: recyclable annually
Male side > http://www.flirt4free.com/forums/threads.php?forum_id=5&thread_id=23313&last_post=1
Female side > http://www.flirt4free.com/forums/threads.php?forum_id=4&thread_id=20463&last_post=1
My favorite fetish Threads so far:
Mirror shows > http://www.flirt4free.com/forums/threads.php?forum_id=17&thread_id=85
Dirty Talking > http://www.flirt4free.com/forums/threads.php?forum_id=17&thread_id=29
My favorite threads from others:
LP's EPIC "What members don't want to see" > http://www.flirt4free.com/forums/threads.php?forum_id=5&thread_id=21665&last_post=1
Adam Foxx' EPIC 20-point member's guide > http://www.flirt4free.com/forums/threads.php?forum_id=5&thread_id=12239
gofish's chat room etiquette for all of us > http://www.flirt4free.com/forums/threads.php?forum_id=5&thread_id=23379&last_post=1
virgil on more RESPECT, chattiquette recap > http://www.flirt4free.com/forums/threads.php?forum_id=5&thread_id=23303&last_post=1
Jeff Gorgeous' "Respect models on f4f = 0" > http://www.flirt4free.com/forums/threads.php?forum_id=5&thread_id=23281&last_post=1
ronnie-uk's thoughts on roles are splendid > http://www.flirt4free.com/forums/threads.php?forum_id=5&thread_id=23439&last_post=1
Fun with Dylan: Is it only Monday Morning? > http://www.flirt4free.com/forums/threads.php?forum_id=5&thread_id=23225&last_post=1
Bradley's "some game;)" first encounter > http://www.flirt4free.com/forums/threads.php?forum_id=5&thread_id=23111&last_post=1
What song are YOU listening to > http://www.flirt4free.com/forums/threads.php?forum_id=5&thread_id=18455&last_post=1
Threads from me:
One Erection Flirt's BoyBand > http://www.flirt4free.com/forums/threads.php?forum_id=5&thread_id=22707&num_posts=18&last_post=1
My BIG thank you to models > http://www.flirt4free.com/forums/threads.php?forum_id=5&thread_id=22999
My heart-throbbing goodbye > http://www.flirt4free.com/forums/threads.php?forum_id=5&thread_id=22715&num_posts=23&last_post=1
Ra ndom Thoughts about Nature > http://www.flirt4free.com/forums/threads.php?forum_id=5&thread_id=23499&num_posts=13&last_post=1
Fa vorite quotes by favorites > http://www.flirt4free.com/forums/threads.php?forum_id=5&thread_id=23413&num_posts=6&last_post=1
Chi tChat Café (Games Forum) > http://www.flirt4free.com/forums/threads.php?forum_id=8&thread_id=107
F4F Gazette (Games Forum) > http://www.flirt4free.com/forums/threads.php?forum_id=8&thread_id=107
On the Female Performer Forum (and why each "my cOOkie" is a love declaration ):
Loona's cOOkie Tribute > http://www.flirt4free.com/forums/threads.php?forum_id=4&thread_id=2147
My Tribute to a cOOkie > http://www.flirt4free.com/forums/threads.php?forum_id=4&thread_id=20459
LickaU's Extreme fetish > http://www.flirt4free.com/forums/threads.php?forum_id=4&thread_id=2021
Being nude in open chat > http://www.flirt4free.com/forums/threads.php?forum_id=4&thread_id=2251&last_post=1
Soccer Thread olé > http://www.flirt4free.com/forums/threads.php?forum_id=4&thread_id=1955&last_post=1
Things you shouldn't > http://www.flirt4free.com/forums/threads.php?forum_id=4&thread_id=19269&last_post=1
The ESP models thread > http://www.flirt4free.com/forums/threads.php?forum_id=4&thread_id=957
Not cheap Sheep thread > http://www.flirt4free.com/forums/threads.php?forum_id=4&thread_id=861
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7/8/16 @ 12:36am
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Location: Spain, longing for Denmark
Posts: 2,447
But first, let me also thank my member friends and roomies for adding extra spice and comfort to my experience here.
I was thinking of whether or not putting names here, but I decided not to. So instead I send my greetings around the globe:
To my Forum Gamer Friends from AUS, US and Canada - may we soon be even more and merrier!
To my roomies from NZ, Germany, Nicaragua, the Netherlands, UK, and US - it is hard to keep up with all of you, lol.
To all my Californian and Canadian friends in rooms and on the Forum (so many of them , needed to make sure you know I mean YOU!).
To all those great people contributing to the Forum, and I include performers here , your opinion is just as important as everybody else's.
In summary: You are just great and you know who you are!! Thanks for all the fun and ... the occasional therapy session .
PS: The Games Forum is sooooo str8! Come and ! Quote
7/8/16 @ 12:46am
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Location: Spain, longing for Denmark
Posts: 2,447
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http://www.flirt4free.com/models/bios/galen-garrett/about.php
I met GG on July 11th 2015 and became a VIP on the 13th because of him.
He captivated me with his entertaining and flirtatious personality.
I had a great party time there. He had the naked work-out thing going for him, being a disciple of the P90X technique, yet being a cuddly guy-next-door type and super nerdy - he used to play tunes of video games on the guitar. I think that's why I entered his room ... I find his look on the profile pic intimidating, but with the guitar in hand, playing some soft tune, I literally fell into his room. He had some special/signature moves, I have not seen anyone else doing during the past year, and it got him a lot of "woof"s from his visitors:
(a) crawling naked on the floor, sexy perspectives and
(b) leaning onto his screen coming real close with his face to the cam, showing those delicious, hairy armpits and than winking and smiling into the cam ... got me every time .
When I finally jumped into a private (I felt somewhat safer in party with other visitors ) he was sooo intense, I was hooked until he left end of Oct. 2015.
You'll find his bio, my favorite photos and shows with him in this tribute list:
http://www.flirt4free.com/lists/guys/galen-garrett-tribute/
(1) Next to my first ever private, which is full of excitement for both of us, I included some of the highlights we had:
(2) a seductive, sensual, slow strip that gets very racy in the second part (with an "I never do that on a first date" air),
(3) a photo session in different clothes and poses ("all you photographers are the same ... you're naughty" ),
(4) a bondage-themed dirty talk session ("you don't get anything, unless I deem it necessary"),
(5) a gangbang-themed dirty talk session ("I have a little surprise for you today and you might not like it ...").
(6) We also did a reading session (The Martian ). He managed the first chapter in 20 min and read the 2nd chapter in open chat. Sooo coool .
He was wonderful at adopting different roles, yet always managed to include our "history" into the different scenes which made things so great and personal with him.
I think I most appreciated about him that he invested some time to prepare for a longer private, be it with props or with things to say in some of the dirty talking scenarios. He was very open to any type of show suggested. When I proposed (3) to him, he told me ""its awesome, ..., its control. its angles. its style. its pretending that you are here. its all in good fun". I adored him for this attitude, he accepted easily that it doesn't have to be about wanking all the time. Finally, he managed to surprise me every time anew and that was so awesome about him. There is an endless list of utterly sexy things he said to me, I'd love to hear from everybody else, but so far no luck, lol. Of course, it helps that he is American, so his verbal skills are superb!
Thinking about him after such a long time (an rewatching some of our privates) still brings a smile back onto my face. Quote
7/8/16 @ 1:02am
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Location: Spain, longing for Denmark
Posts: 2,447
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http://www.flirt4free.com/models/bios/aelit-cox/about.php
I visited this wonderful Russian from mid-September 2015 on until he more or less left for good in February 2016 (he tries to cam once a month, be on the look-out!). He is to this day the performer I had the most privates with and given all the group show fun we had in addition probably most time spent in total, too. It was in his room that I first started to really appreciate the interaction with and ideas of other members, to plan joint shows for larger groups and here I got into a first fanclub.
It would be difficult to describe AC, he was like a shooting star to my experience here, ever-changing, somewhat deadly fascinating and too short-lived for sure. He is a great natural dancer with ecstatic moves, very sportive/flexible. What most fascinated me is how innocent, sweet and friendly he is in open chat, but as soon as you push that private button he turns into ... an animal, really. I loved to watch him dance, loved his blond hair, beautiful soft cock and freckles covering his body like remnants of kisses. He is a master of the "flying camera", having the webcam in his hand and running it closely along his body giving so delicous sights. The activities in his room changed often: We played many games and Christmas time was crazy, when Aelita became a thing.
You'll find his bio, my favorite photos and shows with him in this tribute list:
http://www.flirt4free.com/lists/guys/aelit-cox-tribute/
The selection of privates could not be more different if it was with different performers DESPITE them all featuring dancing:
(1) The day Aelit brought colorful strobe lights to his room, was the day I could no longer resist taking him private for the first time ...
(2) I asked him for handcuffs and wowowow he delivered. And then he sits down and you think it's over, but noooo, he can barely breath, but he's still playing so suggestingly with the cuffs ... mmh ,
(3) Another strobe-light session where he is actually dancing WITH the strobe machine bathing his body and face in the changing colors of the light.
(4) One day he had his body covered in a net of white ropes. I pushed the private button instantely ... Black gloves on white skin. And the mirror in the second half ... This MIGHT be the best private I ever had, but there is also this one:
(5) If there ever was an Alien model, here is a recorded show . He had the studio lighting in his back instead of pointing towards him, making his white skin melt with the background. More and more as he stripped down.
Aelit brought my visual experience on Flirt to a whole new level that I didn't even know could exist. An artist and thus a true performer. He is a truly unique man. His wisdom comes directly from his heart. Always honest, always down to earth. ("I am not a good dancer - relax about this, Chris. With you maybe I won't get fat.")
"Memories they keep coming through/ The good ones hurt more/ Than the bad ones do" - A-HA Quote
7/8/16 @ 1:09am
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Location: Spain, longing for Denmark
Posts: 2,447
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> http://www.flirt4free.com/lists/guys/brian-bustamante-tribute/
Brian is special amongst the special . He needed 5 min to uncover everything about me quite naturally and I have always considered him a friend from the first moment on. He never judges, he is friendly to everyone, he remembers anything people say to him and knows to tease and small-talk at the same time. He's a clever and utterly sexy Colombian, looking so earnest most of the time that his smile really feels like a reward when it breaks through.
I visited him from end of Oct. 2015 until end of March 2016. End of April 2016 I noticed his account was shut down for good. No idea what happened on his end. Therefore, I can point out only a few photos and favorite shows with him.
He was not good at the dancing, but he gave me a few great shows in the few hours we had together:
(1) People liked his cum shows a lot, he could hold back and be hard on for a long, long time, also the biggest loads I have ever witnessed .
(2) With or without the hot Colombian summer, Brian is so far the only model who instantly agreed to an "ice cube show". New sensations for both of us, while I watched him run the ice over his body, the melting ... his torn but laughing face .
(3) We did an "underwear party" were he showed off his collection. His jewel (pun intended, LOL) are undies made from iridescent stones ...
(4) It's not easy for most models to offer shower shows. We had quite a lot of fun to plash when Brian managed to organize such a room! (He was also doing a fleshlight/shower show that same day, in case your interested ;))
He was the one who always, no matter what mood I was in or what I wanted to talk about, listened and took an interest. When I lost Aelit and started looking around for replacement, any model would have been hurt hearing my stories about "today I met this and such a guy", but he never was. He even made recommendations . Truly a best friend personality. With occasional benefits ;). Quote
7/8/16 @ 1:23am
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Location: Washington, DC
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7/8/16 @ 1:39am
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Location: Moving slowly but surely somewhere sometime
Posts: 29,285
Thank you for your thoughts and actions .
I like the respect you show to everyone
May you grow old here on this site and stay Flirtin' Forever Quote
7/10/16 @ 9:51am
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Location: Spain, longing for Denmark
Posts: 2,447
I forgot to do this:
*outs herself and packs up alter ego*
Bye, Burning, thanks for your help with that questionnaire .
Str8 female members: http://www.flirt4free.com/forums/threads.php?forum_id=5&thread_id=23373&num_posts=72 Quote
7/10/16 @ 9:53am
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Location: Spain, Memories of Denmark
7/10/16 @ 9:32pm
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Location: London, UK
Posts: 2,381
Although you and I and others are just one of thousands of members here, you have made a huge input to the forums in your first year (over 8,000 posts). So I think this makes your apparent "sex change" in the forums even more dramatic.
btw I have skipped over your long back-to-back posts earlier in this topic. Do let me know if I have missed anything important. (Nothing as dramatic as your last 2 posts, I assume).
One of my favourite members, Phil_USA, rightly criticised me for writing posts that were too long and indigestible. His English was excellent (for an American ... hehe) but many of those who would like to enjoy the forums are not so fluent. They will be even less keen to read long posts. I know that you, like me, would wish to encourage more members and performers to use the forums here.
This post is already a little longer than I intended, but I should add congratulations on your first anniversary here. Thanks too for your excellent contributions to topics that I've posted. Much appreciated Quote
7/11/16 @ 1:25am
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Location: Spain, longing for Denmark
Posts: 2,447
Dear @ronnie, I was a coward and scared, I waited too long. It had to take me to a female performer's room to get the encouragement to be who I am everywhere.
Yes, I don't get every "male joke" and yes, one of the reasons I go running from the ohmibod is because it puts an emphasis on a guys ass too much for my taste. I have never hold back to tell on the forum what I DO like about performers - be it physical or in their attitude etc. - I believe that was never a big deal.
I have indeed always enjoyed your posts. You are talking about views, about directing a show, about roles people can take, about the setting for it. This speaks very much to me, as I am all for the "perfect show" that is just a nebula of ideas in my mind.
Anyway, these first posts are about the nostalgia of the past year, full of heart-throbbing "I loved this and that guy so much". As I mentioned in the first post, lots of it can be skipped and my roommates are already talking about my book ... I can take a ***hint***. Quote
7/22/16 @ 9:20am
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Location: London, UK
Posts: 2,381
Chris - I hope you don't mind me saying, but your new topic about the forums looks as if you've started another book
It is great to see a topic encouraging more members and performers to use the forums, but I think it needs something shorter and punchier, with some new ideas
Sorry if this is simply repeating the point I made at post #11 + Quote
7/22/16 @ 2:59pm
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Location: Spain, longing for Denmark
Posts: 2,447
To be honest, I might not have done this without your contributions to the str8 female members thread ...
You made me wanting to shout "It's me, it's ME!"
We've got lots to talk about, I think . Quote
8/10/16 @ 4:26am
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Location: Spain, longing for Denmark
Posts: 2,447
Maybe a stupid thing to most of you, but I never thought I'd find a model sweet (and somewhat crazy) enough to do a 6 hours show with me. So proud of my new "6 hours show length" badge and what a night that was .
Having had some connection problems in the middle I am happy to see that in the end the VOD was only cut in half.
And wooooow, so many boost points earned along with that just because of the cam2cam , thanks Flirt Admins for adding that to the Flirt Game!
Thank you, Special Someone, you know who you are, for being such a great host and friend tonight and not being put off by my stupidly smiling face and the drooling and in the end all the yawning .
Here's a special a capella version of Simon Curtis' "8Bit Heart" which is just beautiful and I feel like putting it up here:
PS: ... there's an 8 hours and a 10 hours badge, too, ... ... ... Quote
8/10/16 @ 8:31am
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Location: Spain, longing for Denmark
Posts: 2,447
Thanks, Billy!
I know that performers can see how many other performers have certain badges.
It would be interesting for me to see, how many other users might have managed (or cared about) this or that badge - this information might make me even more competitive (admins? ).
Anyway, with such a show length, there was also a new badge in it for my hard working friend .
I prefer long shows over the 5 minutes peek of everything. I like to lean back and relax and give a performer the room to ... show off .
20-45 minutes is an ideal length in my opinion, if you have certain wishes to be fulfilled. Everything above one hour is a real challenge , though one hour is easily filled when chatting with a friend .
I think I am one fan club away from the 5 fan clubs badge ...
I don't know what it is, but I got as many fan club memberships as a gift . Quote
8/10/16 @ 11:11am
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Location: Baltic Sea, Northern Germany
Posts: 19
so Chris..and ur special one...ur opportunity to get a new badge Quote