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Created by: gofish

5/28/23 @ 2:03pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00
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Respect is something that is often overlooked on the flirt site.
Regarding members who get upset if a model does not respond with in seconds to whatever they might message please take note. First the model does not see your message at exactly the same time you post it, and second if there is a lot of whispering going on in the room it could be easy to be overlooked.
Members or viewers of any sort need to realize that for some models there is a reason why they are on the site and one that they should never be judged on. It is easy to make requests of a model, but the thought of not following it up with some sort of reward is a sign of disrespect for that model. Any model on the site has the right to choose what they will and will not do.
I get that for some members it is easy to post a negative review, but such reviews should be tastefully done and not merely out of revenge.
As I stated respect works both ways. While most models on the site are pretty awesome with the viewers in the room there are not doubt some who see some members as ATMs. One has to realize that some members can tip & whatever else a lot, but some cannot. The key is to enjoy those who visit the chatroom and accept whatever the outcome might be. Yes it can get annoying when some viewers keep requesting to see more and more with the hope that others will provide the reward.
The KEY to this site is to enjoy the experience and acknowledge that it is all in the TEASE and that whatever side of the screen you are on everyone is a real person with real feelings.
Would be awesome to see responses from both models and members on this posting and perhaps any feedback. :thumbsup

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Created by: circusboy26

5/28/23 @ 4:42pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00
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Well put

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Created by: circusboy26

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Well put

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Created by: Philip Reid

5/28/23 @ 4:51pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00

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Created by: gofish

5/28/23 @ 5:16pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00
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Hey everyone, 😊

As a model on this platform for a couple of years, I'm really glad to see gofish's discussion. I totally agree that respect and patience are super important in our community.

What I love the most about Flirt4Free is having the chance to build relationships and interact with you all. But, I get that it can be frustrating when things don't go as we hope. In my experience, it's not about not answering fast enough. Sometimes, the real challenge is when users don't chat with me. Without interaction, it's tough to make a good connection and give each other the experience we're looking for. 🤔

I believe that everyone here is a real person with real feelings. Each interaction should be respectful and thoughtful. This is how we can make a nice, enjoyable experience on this site.

At the end of the day, we're all here to have fun and enjoy the experience, to flirt and enjoy each other's company. So, let's chat, interact, and be respectful. This way, we can make a better environment for all. Looking forward to learning and growing with you guys! 😁🙌👍

Cheers!

Well said there Philip Reid and as to why viewers rarely it seems even talk in open chat is a mystery. One would like to think flirt is a bit more than just a mere porn related site, but where interactions could result in new adventures. One would think it only polite to at least say hello especially when a few models actually say hello when these viewers enter the room. Not sure what the solution might be, but hope something happens soon. The site might consider taking a page out of CB by listing the viewers in the room perhaps.
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Created by: sluttygirl9475

5/30/23 @ 2:18am (EST) |UTC - 5:00
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Created by: gofish

5/30/23 @ 11:43am (EST) |UTC - 5:00
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While I do agree that models have a lot of things going on sometimes models can be rude and kick u out for no reason intentionally. One time I was visiting this duo and for some reason I thought we got along great until one day I came into their room and said hi. They didn’t say anything to me which was rather odd because they were responding to the rest and I questioned them why aren’t they talking to me and eventually they kicked me out for no reason and no explanation whatsoever. I agree that we should respect models to some extent. Yes there will be times I see a model very busy and when that happens I leave and go elsewhere so he can spend time with that client. But I will get back to them when they r not so busy. One thing I will say that is frustrating is u say hi and they don’t respond and they r not busy. Not friendly at all. But all that aside we have to think positive 😉😉😉

sluttygirl9475 sorry to hear of your experience with these model, but sort of think that models who take this approach just might have a bit of an ego trip going on which is sure to have a negative outcome. This is why respect is a two way street. In this case they might have had a lot of whispering going on or being multi-tasking on another site. Having said that if they had been smart enough they could have whispered to you something like "sorry got a lot of chat in the room". Whatever the case kicking you out was clearly not the best choice and could turn into a regular thing . In short if they don't like what a member might be saying just kick them out. Not the best way to attract viewers one might say.
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Created by: sluttygirl9475

5/30/23 @ 10:05pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00
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sluttygirl9475 sorry to hear of your experience with these model, but sort of think that models who take this approach just might have a bit of an ego trip going on which is sure to have a negative outcome. This is why respect is a two way street. In this case they might have had a lot of whispering going on or being multi-tasking on another site. Having said that if they had been smart enough they could have whispered to you something like "sorry got a lot of chat in the room". Whatever the case kicking you out was clearly not the best choice and could turn into a regular thing . In short if they don't like what a member might be saying just kick them out. Not the best way to attract viewers one might say.
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Its like I said before. Toxic models i’ll avoid at all cost. What I want is a positive experience. Had my good and not so good moments and that’s one of them

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Created by: hampsteadheath

6/5/23 @ 1:50pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00
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It's difficult to know what is going on in someone else's life.

I'm sure we can all agree that respect should be a 2 way street. I have to say, most Models have been great with me.

Perhaps my expectations are too low.

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Created by: sluttygirl9475

6/6/23 @ 5:02am (EST) |UTC - 5:00
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Perhaps you were being too slutty sluttygirl? Perhaps the models had just rushed back from church

lol I mean its f4f right?? The point is to have fun and have a good experience with the model.

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Created by: gofish

6/6/23 @ 1:58pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00
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Perhaps you were being too slutty sluttygirl? Perhaps the models had just rushed back from church

HampsteadHeath as sluttygirl said this is flrt4free and regardless of who that member might be there is little reason not to respond to them in a respectful way. This assuming the the member is talking in a respectful way which I assume sluttygird does as I have seen her is a few chatroom.
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Created by: spycatcher10

6/24/23 @ 1:02am (EST) |UTC - 5:00

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Respect may well be a two way street, but what is one to make of going into a room for the FIRST time, only to find the ubiquitous: "You have been banned from this room. This is usually for bad behaviour" greeting you upon arrival???? This happened to me recently with a belami model :mad

. Also, what are the unusual reasons for being banned?

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Created by: gofish

6/24/23 @ 1:38pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00
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. Also, what are the unusual reasons for being banned?

spycatcher10 I am sorry you had that experience with that model and seems to be the trend with that studio based on what many seem to have said. The proof is in the puddling as if one ever checks out the chat rooms of these guys they tend to be very pushy and cocky [not in a flirt way].
Models like this often tend to give other models a bad name by their actions and I do believe can attract viewers who might make demands when in other chat rooms.
It would seem the results of banning members might depend on who the model might be as it was assumed that flirt was not all that keen on banning unless it was a disruptive viewer in the room.
Must say the plus part about your comment is the fact you outed belami which just might make some members avoid their chat room.
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Created by: perfessir

6/25/23 @ 2:45am (EST) |UTC - 5:00

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You actually think the world in your head is better than the world we live in, don't you?

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Created by: hornysucker1

6/26/23 @ 10:41pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00
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Must say the plus part about your comment is the fact you outed belami which just might make some members avoid their chat room.
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Some of the nicest, most respectful models on this site are belami models. Maybe there are some (as there are with non-Belami models) who have run out of patience with people who demand attention, whine about whispering, and don't tip.

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Created by: twixel

6/26/23 @ 11:42pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00
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Topic is about respect yet I see it turns into finger pointing ands trash talking.
Find a model and enjoy the site, you will not mesh with everyone.

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Created by: gloababatrana

6/27/23 @ 11:48am (EST) |UTC - 5:00

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So putting down all the models that work for a certain studio and saying it's a "plus" if no one visits their rooms is a sign of "respect"?

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