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Male Performer Chat: Abusive Members
What can be done about members who berate other members, who insult them, who openly criticize people for their lack of tipping, criticize people for comments and then have the audacity to tell the members if they don't like it they can leave? I am not posting to be aggressive or anything. It just ruins the experience for everyone who really loves the performer, who is a really sweet guy. 
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What can be done about members who berate other members, who insult them, who openly criticize people for their lack of tipping, criticize people for comments and then have the audacity to tell the members if they don't like it they can leave? I am not posting to be aggressive or anything. It just ruins the experience for everyone who really loves the performer, who is a really sweet guy.
From your end, you only have a few options:
- ignore them
- report them to customer service (and hope CS responds); screenshots may help
- move on to another room
Most likely, the model will need to be more assertive and take control of his room, warning the abusive members to stop and change their behavior or risk being silenced, booted out, or banned...and then follow through with the consequences if they continue to attack other members.
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From your end, you only have a few options:
- ignore them
- report them to customer service (and hope CS responds); screenshots may help
- move on to another room
Most likely, the model will need to be more assertive and take control of his room, warning the abusive members to stop and change their behavior or risk being silenced, booted out, or banned...and then follow through with the consequences if they continue to attack other members.
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patrick-dallas
3/11/21 @ 4:39am
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Location: Dallas, TX
Posts: 76
From your end, you only have a few options:
- ignore them
- report them to customer service (and hope CS responds); screenshots may help
- move on to another room
Most likely, the model will need to be more assertive and take control of his room, warning the abusive members to stop and change their behavior or risk being silenced, booted out, or banned...and then follow through with the consequences if they continue to attack other members.
Unfortunately, this is happening in a lot of rooms lately. There are users who seem to be more interested in harassing other users than they are about talking with the model. I know of one user who every time "he" enters a room when another specific user is there, will immediately start asking the other user (user B) how much he has tipped or challenging him into a tip war. Meanwhile, I have never seen User A tip at all. It's all about harassment.
But your options are exactly what these harassing users want, you to leave the room and not come back. If you ignore them, they get more aggressive and disrupt the entire room. Customer service tells you they have reported it, but nothing happens. And finally some models are afraid to ban the users because they will come back with other user names and be even more disruptive.
Flirt really needs to step in and get control of this situation. In my humble opinion. Quote
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gofish
3/15/21 @ 8:26pm
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What can be done about members who berate other members, who insult them, who openly criticize people for their lack of tipping, criticize people for comments and then have the audacity to tell the members if they don't like it they can leave? I am not posting to be aggressive or anything. It just ruins the experience for everyone who really loves the performer, who is a really sweet guy.
wrestlevids it is very sad that these situations happen, but if the model has whispering the member should just whisper to him that they will leave and return later. If the situation gets out of hand the model can take a break which will put an end to that annoying member. Yes the model should take not of the members name and report him or her to the site.
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wrestlevids it is very sad that these situations happen, but if the model has whispering the member should just whisper to him that they will leave and return later. If the situation gets out of hand the model can take a break which will put an end to that annoying member. Yes the model should take not of the members name and report him or her to the site.
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You can ask the person to whisper comments only, ask for positive friendly comments only, and or etc sand / or join VIP and silence their cruddy mouths. Quote
Agreed and Surveiling aspect/inividuals... yeah they're need, however unless drastic, stay out ofit.
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Hopefully a VIP may silence them, a kind 'support the model' statement can be typed with a 'have funners' not scummers' room here' and move on to/with your own session room; whisper to the model a suggestion for a BRB, a jovial 'let's ask VSMEDIA for a ban on all in cam troublemakers, ask them all to join you in a 50 a piece credit mutual group tipping venture (hey with could it hurt to try to lighten up the room and benefit the model, leave and return if model still in session, etc and just sit and endure. It's the model ' a choice anyway. If the substance isn't productive, your choice to stay or go. I've found too many involved increases continuance of situations and/or a wonderance if also a desire of model himself. It does create a spoiler of a cam session don't it, though.
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