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Male Performer Chat: Help me to understand, dear members
Enzo Ferari
Created by: Enzo Ferari

4/28/18 @ 3:30pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00

Hey guys, explane me please ur logic: some of u enter in room and tell to us: "hi" "hru" and etc. We answer and then u can leave or be silent.
I give u some examples. M - member, Me - Me.
1 Example:
_________________________
M: Hey
Me:Hey hru
M: Fine and you? ;P
Me: Good thanks
__________________________
AND THEN HE JUST SIT SILENCE 30 MIN.
2 Example:
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M: Hey sexy.
Me: Hi
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And then he just left.
Now PLEASE EXPLANE UR LOGIC. Are u thinking u will say "hi" to us and then we will show cock ass and etc to in the same time? Or what ? We are the product. U came here to buy something what we have. Why we have to pulling information out of you??
Why should we spin around you and ask you what you want what you like and so on? Why can't you just come and ask what you want? Or ask if we can give you something or not? Please don't waste your not our time.
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Created by: z-money

4/28/18 @ 8:43pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00
Posts: 429

:orglaugh Pobrecito! Some people are just weird like that!
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Created by: 640509040147

4/28/18 @ 11:28pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00
Location: NY
Posts: 1,267

Are u thinking u will say "hi" to us and then we will show cock ass and etc to in the same time?


I don't think that's the case. Most users who want something WILL just bluntly and repeat what they want: "Hi. Show cock/ass/feet/socks/gloves/cum" Heck sometimes they even skip greeting and get to the point.

We are the product. U came here to buy something what we have. Why we have to pulling information out of you?? Why should we spin around you and ask you what you want what you like and so on? Why can't you just come and ask what you want? Or ask if we can give you something or not? Please don't waste your not our time.


I think for this I'll just copy and paste Perfessir's great response from the "Sitters" topic ( https://www.flirt4free.com/forums/threads.php?forum_id=5&thread_id=24945#_posts=8 ) from earlier this year because it was pretty damn accurate:

"Some people don't want to talk that day. Some people don't want to talk to you. Some people don't want to talk to anybody. Some people respond to certain types of chat. Some respond to intelligence. Some respond to the stupidest bullshit. Some people like to watch. Some people open several rooms and tab from one to the other to see if anything interesting happens, hoping to luck upon a cum shot. If you obsess about those people because you think they are rude, you are wasting your efforts and attention away from your body, which is the main reason any model succeeds on this site. Having a big hard dick attached to a hot body that responds to customers goes much farther toward filling your bank account than your ability to get someone to say "hello, how are you, read any good books lately?"

Your income depends on what you do, not what your customers do.

Some people talk and you then see real rudeness. Some people will ask you how you are while you and five other customers are having a grand old time chatting and laughing or in the middle of a show-and-tip session. Some people will watch your conversation threads with three other people discussing sex in the locker room and then interrupt to ask you if your beagle ever chewed your slippers. Some people will ask you how your day is going when you are 10 seconds away from orgasm in the middle of a 500 tip flood that's banging the dickens out of your Lovense. Some people will ask you to get naked and, after you get naked, will ask you to put on black socks. 

Honestly, if I were a hot model, I would develop a base of tippers who like me, not a bunch of talkers"
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mango50
Created by: mango50

4/30/18 @ 9:57am (EST) |UTC - 5:00

Enzo, it's hard to say for sure, and the reply above is pretty accurate. You just never know.

I notice you did not ask any follow-up questions in your examples though. Some members might be very, very shy and need some help talking to a hot guy. Try making small talk. Ask how their day was, where they are from, or something else. They still might not respond because you just never know, but it is worth trying.
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Created by: midnightvoiceco

5/1/18 @ 2:48pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00
Posts: 96

Other potential reasons why someone may come and go in a room:

The performer is younger than expected.
The performer may not be as hung as expected.
The performer may be smoking (a turn off for a lot of us).
The performer may be on a smart phone (another turn off).
The performer's sexual preference states that he's straight.
The performer doesn't look at all like his pic, or has changed his look radically.

I'm not saying that any of these are an excuse. Just that it is what it is. There's a bunch of reasons (and more probably) why someone may come into a room, minimal chat and leave.
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Yorkie41
Created by: yorkie41

5/1/18 @ 4:37pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00
Posts: 518

Some members like to move from room to room checking on what the talent looks like. When they find a guy, or gal, that takes their fancy they might stay a while, and even go private.
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Created by: louisphillippe

5/29/18 @ 11:10pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00
Location: Momentarely in this galaxy while the mother ship r
Posts: 1,234

Other potential reasons why someone may come and go in a room:

The performer is younger than expected.
The performer may not be as hung as expected.
The performer may be smoking (a turn off for a lot of us).
The performer may be on a smart phone (another turn off).
The performer's sexual preference states that he's straight.
The performer doesn't look at all like his pic, or has changed his look radically.

I'm not saying that any of these are an excuse. Just that it is what it is. There's a bunch of reasons (and more probably) why someone may come into a room, minimal chat and leave.




:thumbsup :thumbsup :thumbsup excellent answer ( as usual)!!! :thumbsup :thumbsup
:evil A lot of models are super aggressive and want to force you to
"go pvt baby :mad " and as soon as you enter his/her room it seems
you have to marry them forever :orglaugh until the credit cards
are full!!! :orglaugh :orglaugh ...that also sends me running away...LMAO!!!

Whatever!! it is just my :twocents ... :drinkup ... :bulb ... :evil ... :winkwink ... :orglaugh
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Milo Player
Created by: Milo Player

5/30/18 @ 8:47pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00

Also another good reason could be that they might just be shy and expect you to keep them talking. there's all kind of people around. both members and models. can't just please everybody. if you can't make them happy, (for a reason or another, and i mean can't not not wanting to) focus on the guys that you can make happy and viceversa, so the ones that you can;t make happy check other rooms that might do.
It is what it is, don't take it personally . just enjoy ur time.
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DaddyDidMe
Created by: daddydidme

6/1/18 @ 1:38pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00
Posts: 24

I admit I have done that. I try not to, but it sometimes happens. other examples:
I get a call or something else distracts me. I try to say brb, but sometimes it doesn't happen. I have been thrown off the site. Rarely, but has happened. A big turn off for me is smoking. If i get in a room and she is smoking and I didn't know it, I'm gone. Never to return. I know almost all the performers smoke and lots of guys like it. I don't. And you can't tell by looking at the profile because most girls have no clue what is on their profile since they didn't write it.
Also, last thing. If a performer is in a good conversation with another customer and it looks like they will go private, I will give them a few minutes to see what happens.
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DaddyDidMe
Created by: daddydidme

6/1/18 @ 1:40pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00
Posts: 24

Sorry guys. i was in the wrong forum. my comments are still valid .
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Created by: chrisdk

6/1/18 @ 5:03pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00
Location: Spain, longing for Denmark
Posts: 2,447

Sorry guys. i was in the wrong forum. my comments are still valid . :orglaugh :orglaugh :orglaugh

I guess this means, he's never coming back here either ... :smoking
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perfessir
Created by: perfessir

6/15/18 @ 8:49pm (EST) |UTC - 5:00

Logic has nothing to do with behavior on a fantasy sex site. Nobody has any obligation or reason to explain himself.
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TravisCarlton
Created by: traviscarlton

6/18/18 @ 7:46am (EST) |UTC - 5:00
Posts: 137

Sometimes we are jerking off and can't type at the same time! LOL
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