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Female Performer Chat: Respect the CamGirls
Over the past several months I have seen lots of disrespect for the CamGirls. Asking a lady that has a teddy bear, if you could f*ck it, or if she would f*ck it. that's totally disrespectful. Yes, they work in a business based on teasing you, and letting you see some nudity, but there is no excuse for asking these ladies to break their boundaries in free chat, or break Flirt rules for your amusement. Please treat these ladies with respect and decency in their rooms.
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chrisdk
7/15/16 @ 1:53pm
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Location: Spain, longing for Denmark
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Some people use the anonymity of their user names to only cause trouble, be it with perpetual begging or rude requests.
The best things that can be done in my opinion are:
> When you have the possibility to block grey (and even basic) users from chatting and you receive a lot of disrespectful comments from these member types, you should make use of it.
> If you have the type of members in your room who care and come here for "all in good fun" times, let them help you to talk to the other members and explain what's wrong in their behaviour. In my experience, a good deal of them can be educated and even though they might not be able to tip, they can still improve the atmosphere in a room IF they participate in a respectful manner.
> When you do have a pesky trouble maker, silence him(her), most will leave the room when they are thus ignored. Where this does not help, make use of the eject and/or ban button. You can silence and eject as often as you want to without penalty on your power score.
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We all should have nothing but respect for the performers. I like most guys have one or two particular favourite rooms that I visit. I and other decent guys look after the performer when an undesirable pays a visit. But i occasionally visit other rooms and some of the new girls do not even know the different levels of membership. It is like open season with undesirables preying on the new performers. It is not the first or last time that i have intervened and told guys to be respectful.I have also taken the time to speak to the performer, and given them some pointer.
We all like to be treated with respect. But the performers should have ours. Quote
We all like to be treated with respect. But the performers should have ours. Quote
Velvet has a point - I've noticed it a lot more lately too - guys come in - see a teddy bear (i know which room he's talking about) and assume it is a prop for a show. No, sorry it is a special bear and he is her guard bear.
Some of the tips you point out ChrisDK are valid - for the performer. However, they have to balance traffic in their room against banning greys (non registered), whispers, etc... I know flirt uses an algorithm to send traffic (random) to rooms - and to rank / rate rooms - if a performer bans greys their traffic will go down significantly.
Users can also hide grey (non-registered) chat - if they desire. I know some models don't want or need users help in policing their room - they have the tools to handle assholes - and know how to use them.
Unfortunately sometimes all it takes is one or two sloptwats to ruin the day for a model - Keep in mind guys - they do this for a living - not fun.
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Some of the tips you point out ChrisDK are valid - for the performer. However, they have to balance traffic in their room against banning greys (non registered), whispers, etc... I know flirt uses an algorithm to send traffic (random) to rooms - and to rank / rate rooms - if a performer bans greys their traffic will go down significantly.
Users can also hide grey (non-registered) chat - if they desire. I know some models don't want or need users help in policing their room - they have the tools to handle assholes - and know how to use them.
Unfortunately sometimes all it takes is one or two sloptwats to ruin the day for a model - Keep in mind guys - they do this for a living - not fun.
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I agree with the rudeness getting worse. Most models know how to take care of it, but if the model approves (by you asking 1st!) you helping with the situation I think we should help. I think by us,VIP or any decent member, saying something in chat will make a firmer point, & maybe keep the next one about to type a demand from doing it.
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Maybe, but there are some who get off on being banned. And some who get off on being dicks. Hard to tell when it is an honest - gee i didn't know that i wasn't supposed to act that way.
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I agree with several points made here and I also know who's room the teddy bear is referenced to. It really comes down to decency and respect... If guys would treat a model as if they were face to face with them and not hiding behind an anonymous online persona it would make everyone's life easier hahaha
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derek99
9/9/16 @ 5:45am
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Location: Living, and stranded on an island in Canada
Posts: 70,371
Some people like to think they try, and can be funny by being, and acting to see what they will get away with. I'm sure they will, and have got theirs. If they haven't, yet, then they will.
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Over the past several months I have seen lots of disrespect for the CamGirls. Asking a lady that has a teddy bear, if you could f*ck it, or if she would f*ck it. that's totally disrespectful. Yes, they work in a business based on teasing you, and letting you see some nudity, but there is no excuse for asking these ladies to break their boundaries in free chat, or break Flirt rules for your amusement. Please treat these ladies with respect and decency in their rooms.
One more time for the people in the back!!! Thank you for starting this thread. Some guys are just "fuckboys", as some of you know. Here is some advice.... just take some time to read a models bio before going into her room.
XOXO
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One more time for the people in the back!!! Thank you for starting this thread. Some guys are just "fuckboys", as some of you know. Here is some advice.... just take some time to read a models bio before going into her room.
XOXO
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One more time for the people in the back!!! Thank you for starting this thread. Some guys are just "fuckboys", as some of you know. Here is some advice.... just take some time to read a models bio before going into her room.
XOXO
Linds
Bumping this post!
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suggs
7/31/17 @ 8:44pm
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Shameless plug to a thread I started covering this topic...
http://www.flirt4free.com/forums/threads.php?forum_id=4&thread_id=1233&num_posts=215 Quote
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